Do you wonder how an advice or instruction can lead people to the right way? If you are the one giving the instructions or providing a reliable and worthy advice, is the people you're telling is listening and absorbing the information accurately? The issue here is how do you impart the information to the one is asking.
So how do you do it? Do you tell or give advice by telling him/her or them WHAT TO DO or do you tell them HOW TO DO IT? For me, it make sense by giving instructions on How To Do rather than telling them What To Do. On the other side, it is better to let others think on what they have to do so they can appreciate to correct their own mistakes afterwards. But sometimes, telling others the whole story on different consequences make it not convincing for others and you will do more effort to try it especially to your love ones.
The fact that the world is full of surprises and challenges turn mankind to explore and learn from different things which fullfill his satisfaction and enjoyment on his lives. It doesn't mean that being happy and successful are the key for survival but also from the failure and mistakes we made in order for us to appreciate and personally adapt to the principles of life.
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